Learn tackle from Aisha

Learn tackle from Aisha

Mother Mukninin 'She grew up in a sacred house of Allah. It is indeed a great boon, because every person who directly taught by the Prophet basically going to be a phenomenal teacher and school.

This is what really happened to our mother, 'Aisha. Reasoning and thoughts are filled with the conceptions of Islam. Behavior and attitude 'Aisha is a form of practical implementation of the concepts of Islam. It does not make sense if 'she committed an act that violates the idea, conception and behavior is ingrained in himself and his wits.

This attitude is not only present in 'Ayesha', but is a pattern of behavior that is in the Prophet's companions in general. There were no remarkable harmony between the mind and behavior, which rarely contradicts the Koran.

'Aisha -putri of the holy Prophet of honest-biggest misfortune that may befall women seem dignified. He was accused of adultery. Would he received severe test. The claim is not only limited circulation among family and close friends, but circulated to the public and seasoned with a number of shrewd propaganda.

His wife was a highly respected and loved by the people alleged to have committed adultery. Zina is seen as a disgrace and a major sin of every woman, especially if done by the wife of the Prophet, then it really becomes a problem and a severe test for 'Aisha. Only those with a mature personality, strong and smart like 'Aisha who can endure the test and were able to find a solution so that it can pass the test well.

What does' Aisha's face complex problems? How could he face, fight, and win!

Of Muslim woman of today can take a lesson, to emulate the attitude and actions' Aisha when having problems and test it faces.

Problems and How to Face

Before discussing more about the attitudes and ways of 'Aisha to solve the problem, it is better to comment on the definition of the problem.

Human life will certainly be met with problems. It is as part of a given scenario الله good for learning as well as to show signs of his greatness and power.

Problems can be defined as a feeling or awareness about the existence of difficulties that must be overcome to achieve the goal. The problem may also be defined as a condition when we collide with reality which is not desirable.

Unknowingly sometimes issues come to preoccupy us. Here we need the attitude and knowledge in order to face the problem and find the right solution and certainly not getting upset to other problems. And more importantly, how to behave and act in the face of the problem according to the instructions given by God.

Sometimes it takes time to solve problems, but sometimes the problem can be resolved quickly. How the mother 'Aisha face the question at that time?

One problem faced by 'Aisha is a hoax. The hypocrites disseminate the issue of adultery case 'Aisha with Safwan bin Mu'aththal. When returning from a war, 'she delayed from the group. Safwan brought it home and ride camels. After the issue of adultery is also widespread, like fire that quickly burned dry grass.

The question of 'Aisha at that time there were two things, first,' she found herself alone with his entourage had left the team. Secondly, when this issue outstanding on the outside, it does not know not even crossed his mind at all. So what did 'Aisha to deal with these problems?

Aware that the Central Problem

It should be noted that a question is meaningless if the people affected or have a relationship with these problems do not realize it. So even with 'Aisha, he realized that the problems being faced. When looking back on the necklace was missing and found a group of troops had gone away, 'she realizes that she is in trouble. This is the first issue.

While on the second question, which it accused of adultery, "she immediately felt that there is a problem when told Umm Mistah about issues that are circulating in the community. In the beginning 'She did not feel it. So it surprised the Umm Mistah reproach against his son, and he defended it as Mistah including one friend who participated in the battle of Badr.

Keeping Emotions and Stay Hardcore

Our mother 'Aisha able to hold his temper in the face of problems that happened. Though the situation he experienced at that time was very tense. Left isolated by a throng of troops on the battlefield. And he was still able to control himself when he heard the real issue may be distressing. Of course 'Aisha shocked and bewildered on the issues of widespread concern him. But despite that, 'Aisha remained patient because given the word of God,

"So just be patient that's the best (for me). And God alone begging his help against what you're describing. (Yusuf [12]: 18)

Hardness of heart possessed 'Aisha reflected by always invoking the protection of God through prayer, prayer, remembrance, kind thought to God and Muslims associated with the issue of her, and expecting the arrival of goodness. Sides of faith in general was also very influential in this regard, so that faith must be maintained at every phase of the settlement of the problem.

All this is done by 'Aisha. Although the issues it is able to create a 'Aisha hit, but he still was not losing my mind.

Against the first issue, 'Aisha concluded that the group did the troops have already left, and he was left alone. This makes' Aisha worrying myself to death when, receiving the disaster, or violence. While the second issue, 'Aisha has been concluded and informed. Outstanding issues when it was he was accused of adultery. 'Aisha is already thinking about the charges and the consequences that might arise.

Rethinking Solutions

'Aisha useful to think of possible solutions to resolve the problem. That having in mind 'Aisha time it is about the following:

1.Menyusul entourage troops. But he did not have a vehicle, while the night was dark and he was not likely to walk alone

2.Tetap be in her place hiding

3.Pergi elsewhere

4.Menunggu in the first place with the group hopes the troops or some of them will come back to that place. For when the group know if he was not there, they would soon be back to the same place to look.

5.Mencari someone who may be left out of the group as he experienced, or wait for someone who follows the group of troops from afar.

While the second issue, which occurred in the minds of 'Aisha is;

1.Membela self

2.Menyerahkan it to the Messenger, while he stays at home. But it seems' Aisha saw that the Messenger affected by this issue, in addition to the issue was already widespread in the community

3.Pulang father home to his mother, be patient and give them to God

4.Menerapkan most appropriate solution among existing solutions

Solutions

'Aisha chose to remain in the same place with the group hopes forces or part of them back again to pick up. Sure enough, Safwan come. At that time, 'Aisha when Safwan is thought the group was sent to fetch him. Therefore, 'Aisha directly camels Safwan without talking at all. And because of this assumption as well, 'Aisha never memorized the issues there will be tilted about him. Because he thought that Safwan was sent to seek and take her entourage following the entourage.

While on the issue of allegations of adultery, 'Aisha asked permission from the Prophet to return to his family home. Because this issue needs further clarity while yet down revelations explain. In addition, faced with these kinds of problems also need a cool head in order to be able to think calmly. The return of 'Aisha to her parents' house contains many himah and ingenuity. Therefore, the apostle was soon to meet the desires' Aisha them.